This past week we've discovered that one of my kids has been living with a significant hearing impairment for some time. I, being the attentive, in tune and observant mother that I am - had no flipping idea. I only took him to the appointment because his Dad was concerned, and the kids and I happened to have a morning free.
Of course once the results were in, (and naturally this was in front of the hearing professional), my child told me that his teacher has regularly been frustrated with him for not paying attention (first I've heard of it); that apparently all the headphones in our house "are broken" (I'd already bought him four pairs); and that the teacher he hears the best at school is coincidentally the one who has an amplification system in her room (okay, maybe he mentioned that. Once.)
The audiologist asked if I'd noticed he didnt hear people speaking in a whisper or low volume..."no", I said. During my late night rumination over the last few days, it has occurred to me that perhaps I never noticed this issue because I tend to use ..ahem....fairly healthy levels of volume when I talk with my children!!
Yes, in case you are wondering, I do feel terrible. Terrible.
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